Healing Scroll
How to Grieve a Womb That Never Bled
For the ones who ache without a visible wound
- Introduction
Not all womb pain is physical. Not all wombs bleed. Not all loss has a grave.
This scroll is for the ones who feel something missing — but don’t have the “right” words to name it. For those who:
- Never menstruated
- Had hysterectomies, abortions, or miscarriages
- Chose not to have children — but still feel grief
- Were born male but feel womb memory in their soul
- Have no visible womb trauma — but carry sorrow in the belly
If you’ve ever felt like you’re mourning something you never had, you are not crazy. You are remembering.
- What Kind of Womb Grief Is This?
his is spiritual womb grief. It lives in the body, but beyond the flesh.
It often appears as:
- Pelvic heaviness, womb numbness, digestive distress
- Emotional breakdowns around pregnancy or motherhood
- Deep jealousy, shame, or anger that feels “irrational”
- Feeling spiritually disconnected or “cut off from the feminine”
A sense of something is missing — but doctors find nothing wro
- Grief Ritual: Witness the Invisible Loss
You Will Need:
- A red cloth or piece of fabric
- A candle
- A bowl of warm water
- Rose oil (or any sacred oil)
- A journal or voice recorder
Steps:
- Light the candle and place the red cloth before you.
- Anoint your hands and your lower belly with oil.
- Dip your fingers into the bowl and say:
“For the womb that never bled…
For the child that never came…
For the pain with no name…
I witness you now.” - Let tears come. Let silence come.
- Write or speak:
“What I never had, I still get to grieve.
What I lost, I still get to honor.
What was taken, I get to reclaim.”
You may keep the red cloth as a spiritual altar piece, or bury it to symbolize release.
🔥Suggested Tools
- Womb Remembrance Oil
- Grief Altar Candle
- Priestess Journal: “The Womb That Was Silenced”
- Book: Wombs of Justice
“I am ready to write my way back to myself.”
- Ritual Prompt Set: Journal as Portal
- “What truth am I afraid to write?”
- “If my younger self read this page, she would feel…”
- “The part of me I buried in silence was…”
- “The portal I want to walk through now is…”
- “I still remember the version of me who believed in magic.”
- “My spirit writes best when I…”
🔥Suggested Tools
- The Priestess Journal (Temple Edition)
- Voice Reclaiming Oil (for throat, pen, or page corner)
- Anointing Candle for sacred writing
- Book: Reclaiming the Star
🪶Journal Prompt
“If my womb could speak, it would say…”
“The part of me that still aches is…”
“I give myself permission to grieve _________.”